Invitation to Reflect

Indeed! In the creation of the heavens and the earth, and in the alteration of night and day, there are indeed signs for men of understanding.

Al-Imran: 190

Saturday, 10 May 2014

The Procrastinator

Producing an admirable piece of writing has two main enemies, the first of which is coming up with a suitable topic. It was once said on a very useful blog: “Writers and runners share a common challenge… it’s often hard to get started.” [1]
(Once you do receive the revelation of a perfect topic, the challenge of controlling yourself before getting to a notepad or a laptop arises, but that in itself is a separate essay). Writing comes with a lot of trial and error, and so after I completed a piece of writing that I was not entirely proud of, I started thinking about how writers find inspiration.

It occurred to me that one usually writes about what they are familiar with. It is often advised to write about something you know well, or do well. And that is when I decided that I would write about procrastination, which not only brings me to the title of this essay, but also happens to be the second biggest enemy to producing an admirable piece of writing. (Of course, social networking sites are the main allies to this habit. That topic, again, however, belongs elsewhere.)

Let’s begin with a standard definition: according to the New Oxford American Dictionary, procrastination is the “action of delaying or postponing something”. Funnily enough, the example used to further explain this definition reads: “Your first tip is to stop procrastinating.” Already, we can see this is not a very desirable quality to possess, when people are being advised to give it up. Then why do people procrastinate? And why, as far as I’m aware, is this term being so widely and rapidly spread across the world?

Next, let’s take a tour of the mind of a procrastinator, or at least their thought process. Typically when a task or an opportunity arises and the deadline seems to be days and days away, one over estimates their capacity to work effectively and puts the task off for a while “because there is plenty of time left”. This stage is often referred to as ‘False Security’. The next stage, and probably one of the biggest reasons behind the habit, is laziness. This is the stage where even though getting a head start on the task seems like a wise decision, you decide to prop yourself against the computer screen and read blog posts on procrastination. Then come the excuses, where a certain voice in your head tells you you’re tired, or busy, or not in the mood, or not well, or just simply everything except in a position to start working. Then comes the denial. There is barely enough time left to start working and you know you’ve messed up, but you can’t admit it, so instead you settle to wasting even more time by saying you still have time left. The only difference between this stage and the first is that in the first stage, at least you’re not lying to yourself. Finally, crisis strikes. This normally occurs on the morning of the deadline or the night before. For some it may happen a day or two in advance but the nervous breakdowns don’t normally hit a procrastinator before that. This is when you share vows with yourself to never procrastinate again, knowing all along that you’re most probably going to break this avowal next time. [2]

Personally, when I procrastinate (which is too frequent to track), I feel weak inside. I feel I have failed. I feel I have succumbed to either social media, extensive, unneeded hours of sleep or laziness. How do I overcome this? Well, its difficult, and I continually fail. If you ask anyone who has completely overcome their habit of procrastination (if you can find anyone), they’ll probably tell you it was through immense hard work, determination and self-discipline. That’s the only answer. There is no shortcut. There is no easy way out.


Procrastination is an inherent part of our personalities. It’s human nature. It’s built-in. It’s a default feature. We make the difference by choosing to suppress the desire to procrastinate. The purpose of this essay was to shed some light on procrastination, and so keeping that in mind, I conclude with the words of a wise procrastinator (oxymoron): “I will stop procrastinating… tomorrow.”





References

Friday, 2 May 2014

The Meaning Of Life



We often overlook the meaning of our lives, thinking there is none. Like everything else on this universe, we are sent with a specific purpose. We have not been fashioned in such a supreme manner for a useless purpose. There is something grand and great behind our creation and our existence, and we need to recognise it.

Just Read. 

Saturday, 22 March 2014

Pick Up Some Speed!

Ever seen someone up there and think, “That would have been so me!” You think there just wasn’t enough time to think, to go over the pros and cons, to assure and reassure it’s a good deal, to make all possible arrangements in case of a failure and then give it a shot.

Well guess what? Not only has your opportunity gone by you, but all the so-called arrangements and effort you put into the preparations also hold no value any more. The world wont ask you how much you thought about doing it, they will ask you whether you did it or not.

There is an ayah in the Quran, which talks about the people who hurry in good deeds. Whilst talking of the believers, Allah says, “These race for the good things, and they shall win them in the race.” (Al-muminun, ayah 61)

Allah (swt) says that those who are quick in good deeds shall win them in the race. And who can deny what Allah says is true? So consider it a guarantee; if you hurry in what is right and can serve the community and serve Allah (swt), you will get to do it, just like all those other people out there.

Therefore don’t think of the possible risks. Don’t start planning what you would do if you fail. Don’t be pessimistic. Instead, tell yourself you WILL NOT fail, because your Lord has said so. And GO FOR IT!

After all, those who do not take risks and do not meet failures in their life regularly are not really living life to its full potential!



#think.

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